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Thea December 29th, 2006

If somebody asks me: “Which one you prefer? Taking train or airplane?”

I will say that I’d rather taking train than airplane.

It’s not because I have ever taken airplane with you when we went to Jogja shortly after you arrived to Jakarta for visiting me last month. Or it’s not due to taking train is cheaper than taking airplane.

It’s just as I want to spend much more time with you.

An 8-hour train trip won’t be exhausting. It won’t be lengthy. Instead, it will be nice and memorable at once.

Yes, we are going to leave for Jogja tonight.

Jogja, place where we met for the first time, and hopefully it’s where we’re going to spend our rest time.

This year is going to end.

If you said that this Eid Mubarak was the nicest one, then for me this year is the sweetest for me.

I couldn’t be more happier as I have more spirit to challenge my future….with you. Man, whom I adore

Mother Day……..

Thea December 22nd, 2006

 

How is your relationship with your mother? For me, it’s used to be a love and hate relationship. But now, I call it a most understanding relationship ever during my life.  Despite the lack of intensity of our encounters, I feel I’m getting involved more sympathetic with her. An open-minded relationship I used to dream of turns into reality. Our conversation becomes more interesting than ever. The topics vary from culinary, fashion, work, to the most current news. 

 

There was a slight gap between me and her, especially when I grew up as. I categorized her as an old-fashioned in spite of her assertiveness as she often confined me with strict regulations. That’s why I used to be closer to my dad than to her. She’s demanding and we’ve ever gotten into dispute.

 

Yet, I find that what she forces me to go through pushes me forward. From her, I have been learning many things. When she asks me to help her cooking, I know about cooking delicious food. I know I become more knowledgeable as she disseminates her interest in books and newspaper. I think I have quite good sense of music because I often hear her sonorous voice while singing nice songs. 

 

After all, for me, she’s a super woman. She’s smart and efficient; firm and flexible at once. In addition to her writing skill, she masters cooking and organizing household. She’s a stylish journalist and anchor. She helps my dad to combine dress and me to choose the best color of dress suited to me. Thank you mom!! Thanks for everything you have made for us. Thanks for making me comfortable in your womb. Thanks for nurturing and lecturing me. Thanks to make me ease with my self. And thanks for being with me through thick and thin. Many love for you…and happy mother day.

 

“Siapa Bilang Jadi Karyawan Ngga Bisa Kaya?”

Thea December 15th, 2006

What is in you mind reading the above statement? Being provoked? Wondering? Or what? I was being provoked reading that statement when I saw in an alley of a bookstore. It’s a title of a book written by Safir Senduk. This book I find very useful as it gives smart ways to enable an employee like me to manage salary. Undoubtedly, everybody wants to be rich, or at least we want to be settled with our own money. The question is: can we (or I), employee, be rich? Some say that you won’t be rich if you choose to be an employee. You must to be an entrepreneur first to be so. This book exactly broadens your point of view on managing employee salary so it can generate revenue for us. 

How can this book help you? There are five steps on managing salary elaborated in this book. The first one, buy and posses productive things as many as you can. Hhmmm, what is productive thing? According to this book, productive thing is thing that can generate income for us. Once reading this part, I stared to my room and counted how many of them I had. The example of this such as saving, deposits, reksadana etc. Motorcycle as well as car can be productive things if you rent them to ojek rider or driver, and then you can earn money from them. Manage your expenditure. It’s very important to make priority list on your daily expenditure. It’s much better if we can avoid deficit as it is the root of our financial problem. Put debt paying at the top priority, and then insurance, followed by daily expenditures. 

Watch out with debt!!! Make sure that you know the wise way and time to have a debt. Meaning, you can lend money from bank or maybe your relatives but with certain terms. The lent money is addressed at buying productive things. Then, it’s used to purchase thing that is certainly predicted to be more valuable in the future, such as land or house. Next, you can lend money only if you really don’t have enough cash to but urgent thing, even its value will be less in the future. However once deciding to lend money, be wise on choosing with whom you will lend it and the period on repayment. Fourth, spare your money for the future post. What is future post? It’s a post that you have to be afforded in the future such as your children education expense, pension, business, and vacation or pilgrimage expense. 

The last is save for the rainy day. It’s important to bear in mind the significance of protection. We never know what the future brings. So, be prepared. We may be sick, being fired, or and many things may occur. That’s why the writer of this book suggests us to have insurances. To have more than one type of insurance is much better. Then try to find another revenue generator besides from our existing job. It will be helpful if someday we get fired or our company should meet employee rationalization. Reading this book, to be rich, I bear on mind that the key is managing the salary as wise as possible. It can be applied by sparing it to create revenue and controlling the expenditure posts so deficit can be avoided. To be rich, it’s not about how much salary that we earn, but how much of it that we can spare to facilitate us making money. Written in simple style, this book is nice as well as catchy to be read while having a lunch break in the office. Have a nice reading!!! 

 

 

Daddy

Thea December 13th, 2006

He always makes me laugh
He knows better how to make me comfortable with myself
Each of my encounters with him is always a memorable moment
Just by looking at my eyes, he knows that I’m sad
He listens to every single word I say
He teaches me how to love without grabbing possessively
Hearty person, I learn how to take care of others from him
As a sad moment came, I cried at his chest
It was when he was sick
Lying weakly on a bed, I saw his hairs whitened
His moustache and beards looked the same way
I held him closely that I could feel his heartbeat near to me
I said slowly to him, “Your daddy girl is coming to you”
He said everything would be okay,
Meanwhile I said to my self how I could be calm if a person that I take care much was sick without showing any significant progress.
He got less thin,
That was I noticed
Beneath his dried skin, I could feel the strong bones which used to protect me.
I fed you up Dad as what I asked you to do with me when I was your little girl
Wanting to get rid of your boredom, I talked to you about many things as I conceived it made you amused.
Now, you’re recovered.
Yet I promise you that you won’t miss me
Once a month I will come to you…
And we can share our stories not only by phone,
But also by talking heart to heart….as friends
 And as father and daughter,
I miss u daddy…..
 

Deja Vu

Thea December 13th, 2006

Apa jadinya jika kita bisa kembali ke masa lalu dan punya kesempatan untuk mencegah terjadinya sebuah bencana yang mengerikan? Tentu tidak semua orang mau melakukannya bukan? Tapi bagaimana jika kita merasa memiliki keterikatan batin, jauh dari yang kita sadari, dengan orang-orang yang menjadi korban bencana tersebut seolah-olah kita pernah mengenalnya dengan dekat dan seperti mengenalnya tidak dalam hitungan hari?
Inilah yang menjadi inti cerita film besutan Tony Scott yang terbaru, DeJavu. Di bintangi oleh Danzel Washington yang berperan sebagai Agen Doug Scralin, film ini dibuka oleh kemeriahan perayaan Mardi Grass oleh para angkatan laut AS beserta keluarganya di atas sebuah kapal yang berlayar di sungai kota New Orleans. Kemudian kapal terebut meledak dan menewaskan para penumpangnya.
Val Kilmer yang berperan sebagai agen FBI Pryzwarra, kemudian melibatkan Doug Scarlin dalam penyelidikan bencana tersebut. Dalam penyelidikan ini, Doug merasa pernah mengenal Claire jauh sebelum dia melihat Claire di ruang otopsi. Cliare sendiri adalah perpempuan yang tewas dan ditemukan terapung di bawah jembatan tempat meledaknya kapal feri. Menurut Doug, jika kasus kematian Claire bisa diungkap, maka akan terungkap pula dalang peledakan kapal feri tersebut.
Dalam proses penyelidikan, Doug mengetahui bahwa pemerintah Amerika Serikat telah menciptakan alat yang mampu memantau penduduk AS dan segala aktivitas mereka bahkan ketika mereka berada di dalam sebuah gedung atau rumah. Memanfaatkan alat ini, Doug dan para ilmuwan yang mengembangkan alat tersebut mencoba untuk mebongkar penyebab kematian Claire. Alat super canggih itu juga mampu mengembalikan seseorang ke masa yang lalu. Dan dengan itu pula, Doug bersikukuh kembali ke masa sebelum ledakan dahsyat itu terjadi dan mencoba menyelamatkan para korban dan terutama si Claire, perempuan kulit hitam yang dirasakan Doug lebih dekat dari yang dia bayangkan. Itulah yang dinamakan Déjà vu.
Akhir film ini, menurutku menyimpan sedikit keganjilan. Apa itu? Wah ga seru kalo ga liat sendiri filmnya.  Yang jelas film berdurasi seratus menit lebih ini “memaksa” kita untuk berpikir agak keras seraya menikmati film ini. Namun dimikian, film ini juga sangat menghibur, apalagi dinikmati di akhir pecan sambil melepaskan kepenatan setelah bekerja full senin sampai jumat. Oh ya satu saran, nikmatilah film ini di bisokop, karena sensasinya jelas akan jauh berbeda jika kita menyakisakan di televise biasa. Kecuali kalo kamu punya home theatre di rumahJ

Jogja

Thea October 20th, 2006

Why time in Jogja ran so fast that taking five-day leave seemed very short for me? Once stepping down from the airplane, i took a deep breathe, relaxing my exhausted body after an-hour air journey.  

Then, what did i do? Having taken my luggage at home, shortly i went to Gudeg seller in Janturan. Ignoring the chilling wind, i cruised its amazing night. It remains same for me. Gudeg seller are scattered along the street. Jogja is still a beautiful city, especially in the night. I like the glimmering lights of Jogja, though in Jakarta i often see such thing. 

Spending almost six years in Jogja, it was very hard fot me once i had to leave this city. Hence last week, I took my time enjoying every corner of Jogja in five days. I visited interesting spots, i met my old friends, i spared my time with my mom and dad, and i spent my time with my close friend.

I should take a longer leave next year as i haven’t been even satisfied with my last time being in Jogja. Hhmmmm, i still have unvisited itineraries. Let me short them out….Siung beach, Melting Pot, Sate Karang (hhhmm food is my passion), and many more.

I schedule to visit Jogja on the third week of November and of course in last December, when i manage to spend new year eve with my family and my close friends. The later will be longer than the former and i convince will be more interesting as well. Surely, i can’t hardly wait……

I love Jogja….very much:)

 

Berkumpul Lagi

Thea October 20th, 2006

14 Oktober 2006 (13:25)
Thea(T)                        : Halo
Warung Daun(WD)         : Warung Daun Selamat Siang
T          : Mba bisa pesen tempat buat hari selasa
WD       : Untuk buka puasa ya mba?
T          : Iya
WD       : Berapa orang?
T          : 6 orang
WD       : Smoking apa non smoking room?
T          : Smoking room
WD       : Masih dalam waiting list ya mba. Nanti jam 4 silakan hubungi lagi
T          : Oke
14 oktober 06 (15:55)
T          : Halo mba. Saya mau confirm tempat atas nama Thea
WD       : Sebentar mba saya check
              Hhhmm, Mba Thea, statusnya udah oke.
T          : Terimakasih
WD       : Tolong hari selasa sebelum jam 3, pesananan menu udah masuk ke kita ya mba.
T          : Okay
14 Oktober 06 (17:18)
Send To Many:
Dear All, Buka puasa jadi hari selasa di warung daun.
Senin 16 Oktober 2006
 
Liza to Thea :  Eh besok selasa bukannya ada buka bareng A’a Gym di lt.52?
Yuan to Thea: Besok ada buka sama A’a Gym kan? Pasti banyak yang ga bisa.
Thea to Kala : Mas, besok pada ga bisa nih. Gimana?
Kala to Thea : Dimundurin aja. Jadi rabu.
Thea to Abi   : Bisa rabu ga?
Abi to Thea   : Siap. Gw bisa!!!!
Selasa 17 Okober 2006
T   : Halo mba. Saya Thea yang udah pesen tempat buat ntar sore. Bisa dimundurin besok ga?
WD: Waduh udah ngga bisa mba. Udah penuh semua.
T   : Oh ya udah. Pesenan saya ntar sore dicancel aja.
WD: Oke
Rabu 18 Oktober 2006
Rio to Thea: Thea ntar sore jadi?
Thea to Rio: Jadi Yo. Di Plangi ya.
Rabu 18 Oktober (17.45-till drop)
Akhirnya semua berkumpul. Aku, Rio, Abi, Kala ma Yuan. Minus Liza yang katanya bakal nyusul. Seperti biasa, Plangi selalu penuh di jam-jam segitu. Karena ga dapet tempat duduk, setelah menghabiskan air mineral dan teh kemasan, kita mutusin untuk magriban dulu. Berjejal dengan puluhan orang yang juga pengen salat di mushola yang kecil, kita akhirnya berhasil menunaikan shalat dengan selamat? Kenapa selamat? Saking kecilnya tuh mushola, dan banyaknya orang yang mau sholat, kondisinya mungkin bisa disamain kayak sholat di masjidil haram yang penuh dengan orang. Udah syukur ga keinjek apa kesikut.
Habis itu kita mengitari lantai 3A Plangi buat cari resto yang cozzy. It’s not about food but also bout the place. Resto yang cozy memungkinkan kita mingle dengan enak. Pilihan jatuh ke sebuah restoran Thailand yang chic. Sayangnya tempatnya masi penuh sehingga kami mesti nunggu sekitar 10 menitan. Sambil menunggu tempat, kami pun ngobrol. Topiknya beragam, tapi yang paling seru pas ngomongin gaji ma THR…hehehe.
Ga kerasa tempat buat kami dah available. Kami pun masuk dan mulai memesan menu. Merasa asing dengan menunya, tanpa ragu kami memanggil waitress untuk menjelaskan apa saja yang ada di menu itu( sori ya mas). Lha daripada pesen tapi ga taunya makanannya aneh. Kan rugiiiiii….
Setelah selesai memesan, kami lanjutkan acara ngobrolnya. abi mengeluarkan HP barunya yang 3G enabled. Kerennn. Yang lain cuma bisa bedoa semoga bulan depan perusahaan bisa ngasih HP kayak yang Abi punya. Amiennnnn
Tak lama, pesanan pun datang. Pesenanku Stirred seafood and tofu with rice terlihat enak. Ternyata emang bener. Rasanya enak. Sambil makan kita terus ngobrol sampe si Liza datang menyusul.  Lalu dimulai lah photo session pake HP barunya Abi.
Udah lama banget kami ga ngumpul kayak kemaren. Three months ago seemed so long that we almost forgot to go home as it was near to nine o’clock. Time to get to home. Menyenangkan sekali bisa meluangkan waktu kayak gini. In between the hectic office activities, to have and enjoy such moment is precious.  Kapan ya bisa ngumpul bareng lagi? Mungkin di penghujung tahun 2006. Seperti kata Abi, “Bagaimana kalo kita ke Sukabumi?”. Hhmm terbayang Salabintana trus rafting di Citarik. Ayo!!!! Siapa takut!!!!  

Jazz in the City (Nice to be Listened)

Thea October 20th, 2006

Tergerak untuk nulis review ini pas baca sebuah majalah wanita yang memilih album ini sebagai choice of the week. Personally speaking, i totally agree with that magazine’s choice. Album Jazz in the City merupakan kompilasi dua puluh lagu-lagu bernuansa jazzy yang pernah ngetop di Indonesia. Lagu-lagu yang ada di album ini pernah populer di tahun 80 an sampai lagu-lagu yang populer di tahun 2000 seperti Feeling Good nya Michael Buble ato High and Dry nya Jamie Cullum. Buat aku, lagu-lagu di album ini paling enak dinikmati sambil tiduran dan baca buku…hhmmm such heaven:). Aku suka semua lagu-lagunya tapi favoritku adalah A Love That Will Last nya Renee Olstead (ring back tone ku)dan Besame Mucho yang dinyanyikan oleh Rosa Passos(aku suka lagu ini sejak kecil karena mama sering banget nanyi lagu ini). Oh ya..suara indahnya Basia juga bisa kamu nikmati di lagu Water of March lho!!!

- Thomas Jefferson’s ten rules for the good life -

Thea October 6th, 2006

Try this one, find the art of living you may not expect before.
Cheers…..

- Thomas Jefferson’s ten rules for the good life -

1. Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
2. Never trouble another for what you can do yourself.
3. Never spend your money before you have it.
4. Never buy what you do not want because it is cheap; it will never be dear to you.
5. Pride costs us more than hunger, thirst, and cold.
6. Never repent of having eaten too little.
7. Nothing is troublesome that we do willingly.
8. Don’t let the evils which have never happened cost you pain.
9. Always take things by their smooth handle.
10. When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry, count to one hundred.

“Gomennasai”

Thea October 6th, 2006

What I thought wasn’t mine
In the light
Was one of a kind,
A precious pearl
When I wanted to cry
I couldn’t cause
I Wasn’t allowed

Gomennasai for everything
Gomennasai, I know I let you down
Gomennasai till the end
I never needed a friend
Like I do now
What I thought wasn’t all
So innocent
Was a delicate doll
Of porcelain
When I wanted to call you
And ask you for help I stopped myself
Gomennasai for everything
Gomennasai, I know I let you down
Gomennasai till the end
I never needed a friend
Like I do now
What I thought was a dream
A mirage
Was as real as it seemed
A privilege
When I wanted to tell you
I made a mistake
I walked away
Gomennasai, for everything
Gomennasai, Gomennasai,
I never needed a friend,Like I do now
Gomennasai, I let you down
Gomennasai, Gomennasai, Gomennasai,
Gomennasai till the endI never needed a friend
Like I do now

Gomennasai…I am sorry…
Friend indeed is a friend in need
Friendship is a sincere relationship where two or more human cretaures share their views, stories, experiences, cries, laughs, disappointements, and happiness. I recall a memory when i was in university. I had several close friends and we always shared our great moments. Sometimes, we admired a same handsome boy, cheatted, hanged out, and ate out together.What a memorable experience. Yet it broke…yes our at last our friendship couldn’t last. The reason behind it i thought was very silly. Anyhow, it could drive our ongoing relationship at that time ruined. Selfishness of us emerged prominently over bitterness or happines we made. Everybody claimed that herself was the right one. Tear poured…….

Nothing could be stronger than a friendship! That’s what i thought. Finally i know that self-centered point of view can mislead it.