Be Single…Be Happy

Thea February 27th, 2007

Last night i read an article elaborating about single women. This morning, i read my friend’s blog which also tells about being single.

Beginning with questions..Why do people feel disturbed when there’s a woman deciding being single. Why are they so worried seeing a single woman choosing to pursue her career instead of marrying a man?  Why they keep asking if that woman is normal or not just because she prefers single? Why every mother in the world insists their daughter to have their own family someday? Why people think being unmarried means unhappy?

Many questions like those are in my head right now. However, it doesn’t mean that I don’t want to have my own family, to have my husband who faithfully accompany me no matter what. I still retain my dream of raising children and ask them to speak English daily. But, I oppose opinion saying that women who choose being single as their ultimate option. Marriage is a thing. Single is a thing. Happiness and sadness are other things. Yet they don’t correlate each other. Sadness is not a thing included in being single. And happiness isn’t in a package with a marriage. In other words, being single doesn’t necessarily being unhappy.

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