When I No Longer Belong to them

Thea July 29th, 2008

Yesterday I raised a question to my husband to-be if he’s happy that we’re going married, and he directly asked “what about you” after answering that he’s very happy.

I conceded to him that my feeling was mixed, happy, overwhelmed, nervous and sad at once. Why sad? he continued asking.

My sadness isn’t groundless. Once I’m married, I no longer solely belong to my parents, I have another person who will take care and responsibility of me. It’s about sentimental feeling that obviously emerges from inside of me as I consider my self haven’t completed and paid back what they have done to me. For the tears and sweat dropped from them that money can’t buy.

Many times before, I kept asking my self if this marriage they really wanted from me. I knew I couldn’t pay the purest love they give to me or even give a price over the parental bound of us as it’s too precious and priceless. My parents are obviously embodiment of the purest love I’ve ever received and I am hopeful that I can give the similar toward my lovely family. Then I know, they couldn’t be happier seeing me with the man who I love. They are very welcome to have one son who will share his life with me.

Thanks mum, dad for the thick and thins you went through to survive me.

15 Responses to “When I No Longer Belong to them”

  1. # Diaron 29 Jul 2008 at 7:40 am

    Ohh… reading your post really breaks my heart…

    I mean, I’m in your situation as well at this current moment.

    In one side, I’m excited to get out of my parent’s house, and in other side, I don’t know… indescribable.

    Wish you luck :)

  2. # theaon 29 Jul 2008 at 10:51 pm

    thanks a lot for the prayer Diar. wish u luck too

  3. # sastion 30 Jul 2008 at 12:30 am

    ’til now i’m still have those feeling inside.. :(

  4. # theaon 30 Jul 2008 at 10:44 pm

    @sasti…love that of parents and children aint romantic one, yet the most unconditional.

  5. # ogion 31 Jul 2008 at 2:47 am

    susye mo manja2 lagi ma papa kan sekarang

  6. # sastion 04 Aug 2008 at 2:23 am

    sekarang manja2nya ma mas ogi dunk…. ;)

  7. # bebexon 07 Aug 2008 at 6:16 am

    wew!
    lama ga beredar
    kabarnya kaya gini ^^
    hebad the!

  8. # theaon 11 Aug 2008 at 5:09 am

    terimakasih semuaaa…
    terimakasih buat doanya ya:)

  9. # balibuddyon 12 Aug 2008 at 5:29 am

    Nice blog, Just drop to say hello………..from Bali

  10. # sastion 13 Aug 2008 at 3:16 am

    we’re waitin’ for ur wedded-life story thea…;)

  11. # sastion 13 Aug 2008 at 3:17 am

    we’re waitin’ for ur wedded-life story thea… ;)

  12. # theaon 13 Aug 2008 at 5:38 am

    iya sas,
    dah kangen nulis tapi blom ada waktu
    setelah ninggal kantor 2 minggu, banyak kerjaan yg harus diselesaikan
    pulang k rumah dah ada suami yg harus dirawat dan temani:)
    mudah2an bisa secepatnya…sementara bercerita lewat photo dulu yaa

  13. # sastion 13 Aug 2008 at 7:26 am

    “pulang k rumah dah ada suami yg harus dirawat dan temani:)”
    –> duh…nggak kuku deh… ;)

  14. # Theaon 13 Aug 2008 at 10:39 am

    ini bukan mengarang2 lho Sas..
    beneran dirawat dan ditemeni:D

  15. # sastion 13 Aug 2008 at 1:37 pm

    iya thea..percaya kok :)
    Bener2 ditemeni dan dirawat..
    As i just can taking care of my husband in the other way.. :(

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